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Our team is a group of young adults dedicated to help make you life a little easier. We offer advice on relationships, sexual issues, and anything else in that category. Began in June 2010. This blog is to create awareness of different body shapes, make your night better, and help people through their problems by giving them our advice. James(20), Bridie(17), Nonny(18), Lyndsay(25), Beth (17)

Anonymous asked: my boyfriend and i are quite intense when we make out, and we have agreed that if we stay together until the end of the school year (we've been dating nearly 5 months) we will lose our virginity to each other. but he fingered me for the first time last week and it hurt like a BITCH. is there any way to improve this or maybe make it hurt less? someone mentioned tampons? anything else you could suggest?


Answer:

A: be relaxed and use lube, you will get used to it but you have to do it a few times for this to happen, just relax yourself :)

— 1 year ago
Anonymous asked: So i was having sex with my boyfriend, in his kitchen. He had me bent over his counter and was getting me from behind. His penis slipped out of my vagina and it accidentally went into my anus. It hurt pretty bad, but i liked the feeling...He's always wanted to try anal with me, he's done it with other girls in the past. I let him finger my anus from time to time, but i just don't want all the pain. Is this natural.? And what may help with the pain.?


Answer:

A: Pain is natural and if you ant to try it get some lube and be comfortable it will hurt at first and you need to get used to it. Try it in the bath first as it will relax you :)

— 1 year ago
Anonymous asked: Hi there, I'm getting a test soon hopefully, but my period was a day late and when it came it was really light and then it went away but I woke up this morning and I was bleeding a bit darker this time. What could this mean?


Answer:

A: this could be your actual period, as sometimes when you worry about it it delays it and you notice any little change unlike usual, but if you take a test to be sure! :)

— 1 year ago